Comments on: Does your mother still control your life?

By: Ari

Ari — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 11:32:20 +0000

for ladies it is OK to be controlled by their mothers, but it’s opposite for the guys! I have a husband who’s tied with her mother. First I thought what a great mother! but now it’s not. It seems like I’ve married to his mother not to him. He always stands at her side. I’m about to kill myself… but the stupid thing is I still love my husband….

By: nosa

nosa — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 23:38:26 +0000

Its ahorrible thing to have acontroled mother for me im 20 years and i cant decide anything in my life with out my mothers opinion,i depend on her in every thing even when im going to to buy new clothes or whatever i like.i feel that i have no personality,i want to do things by my self because its my life not hers.

By: alks

alks — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 16:27:13 +0000

A good idea is to try to find out if you
are dependent because you don’t want to
harm her by your independent ideas, acts etc.
If she’s overprotective that’s one story but if she
finds pleasure to dictate, resolve all ties one by one without thinking if this may harm in any way, just with the same “dictatorship”.
She’ll once become “naked” and powerless.

By: Mariana

Mariana — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 07:37:40 +0000

Unfortunately, yes. But I depend on her, what can I do? I think, it’s better to be patient and not to make conflicts…